can we say...big mess?!

So i found this AMAZING family! They live in Leo which is only like 10 minutes away from here. They are willing to be totally open with me and wants me to have a relationship with my daughter and wants her to know her sisters. We are going to do an independant adoption.

now for the mess...
Dontay decided to blow up at me at tell me there was no way in hell he was going to allow the adoption and that I needed to get a lawyer because he was then going to fight me for custody! Im sorry but this is a mother loving state so unless he can prove that I am abusive or negelctful of my children, he won't get custody... It will be funny to watch him try though. So we are trying to work with the families adoption specialist and their lawyer to figure out the best way to go about this so we can get the adoption to happen. He is being very selfish and pretty much said that he doesn't care if she would have a better life with them... urgh. I am just praying to God that He has this under control and he is doing what is best. I have no clue how I am going to raise 3 of them on my own if for some reason this adoption doesn't happen. But I am almost done with school and I will start my career and everything will work out...prayers will deff. be appreciated right now!